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Tahoe City, CA – Bootstrap Publications is proud to announce an exciting collaboration with Alexis Germany Fox, a dating coach and relationship strategist, for the upcoming release of Tell Me Your Best Joke by Miriam Dorsett.

In the book’s foreword, Alexis lends her signature warmth and humor, inviting readers to rediscover the joy and playfulness often missing from modern dating. Drawing from her own experience as both a dating coach and online dater, she shares how a simple prompt—asking someone to “tell me your best joke”—became a powerful way to reveal personality, authenticity, and effort.

Miriam Dorsett, prior to writing and curating the book, initially used this question to connect with matches during the height of the global pandemic. The inspiration that led to this book’s formation was from actual online dating experiences.


“Asking for a joke isn’t really about the joke,” Alexis writes. 
“It’s a filter. You find out pretty fast if someone’s willing to put in even a little effort—if they’ll be playful with a stranger, or if their sense of humor is mean-spirited or sweet.”

The book proves that even in the most unexpected spaces, like an awkward app chat, joy and genuine connection can be found. It invites readers to laugh, relate, and reflect on the shared experience of seeking love in the digital age.


Alexis Germany Fox’s foreword reminds readers that dating doesn’t have to feel high-stakes or exhausting—it can be fun. By showing how humor opens doors to authenticity, she underscores that the real magic of dating lies not in perfect punchlines, but in the willingness to show up and try. 


Key Highlights of Tell Me Your Best Joke:

  • Features real and quirky jokes inspired by dating apps and modern romance.

  • Foreword by married dating coach Alexis Germany Fox, whose insights blend humor, faith, and practical wisdom.

  • Launches a multimedia campaign including the Tell Me Your Best Dating Story Contest and Swag Bag Kit Giveaway 

  • Features minority-owned brands for the Swag Bag Kit Giveaway: Just Sipiwe-Skin, Nailstry, and Haiti Coffee Co. and a complimentary dating profile review with Alexis Germany Fox

  • PR Kit collaborations with lifestyle influencers


Even ahead of its official announcement, Tell Me Your Best Joke is already generating excitement through early marketing discussions and planned campaigns. The book is set for a January 4th, 2026 prelaunch, intentionally timed to coincide with “Dating Sunday,” one of the most active days of the year for dating app users worldwide, It is also set to launch on February 14, 2026, Valentine’s Day.


Miriam Dorsett, Founder of Bootstrap Publications, sees this collaboration as a testament to creative connection and shared purpose. Guided by her belief in love, manifestation, and the power of authentic expression, she envisions the project as a space where humor, faith, and personal growth come together inviting deeper conversations about relationships and the many ways love can evolve and inspire.


About Alexis Germany Fox


Alexis Germany Fox is a married dating coach and relationship mentor specializing in faith-based and premarital counseling. Known for her warm, candid approach, she helps singles and couples build intentional, values-driven connections grounded in humor, authenticity, and faith. A mom to two sets of twins, Alexis embodies the balance of family, joy, and purpose that defines modern love. Her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan Magazine, ATTN, Bustle, Good Morning Britain, and The LA Times.


About Miriam Dorsett


Miriam Dorsett is the Founder of Bootstrap Publications, a women- and minority-owned independent press dedicated to amplifying diverse and underrepresented voices. As a writer and creative entrepreneur, she promotes community, authenticity, and self-expression through art and storytelling. Tell Me Your Best Joke is the latest addition to Bootstrap Publication’s growing catalog of empowering and thought-provoking works.


Preorder Tell Me Your Best Joke today and discover the funniest, quirkiest, and most unexpected jokes straight from the world of dating apps, perfect for readers who believe that laughter truly is the best conversation starter.


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Preorder list for Tell Me Your Best Joke: https://www.bootstrappublications.com/miriamdorsett 


For more information on Tell Me Your Best Joke or to schedule an interview with the author, please contact:

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Tags: Tell Me Your Best Joke, Dating coach, Faith-based dating, Intentional dating, Modern love, Dating and Relationships, Bootstrap Publications, Miriam Dorsett, Alexis Germany Fox, Relationship advice

Industries: Publishing & Books, Dating & Relationships, Faith-Based Coaching, Personal Development, Lifestyle & Wellness, Women’s Empowerment, Entertainment & Pop Culture


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For aspiring authors and seasoned writers alike, navigating the world of publishing can be both exciting and overwhelming. Between querying literary agents, avoiding scams, and staying informed about industry trends, writers need reliable resources to help guide their journey. Two invaluable websites that serve these purposes are QueryTracker and Writer Beware. Whether you're just beginning to query your first manuscript or you’ve been in the writing world for years, these platforms offer support and insight at every step. Here’s how they can help you:




QueryTracker: Your Essential Tool for Querying Agents

QueryTracker is a free (with premium options) tool that helps authors research, track, and manage their queries to literary agents. If you’re planning to traditionally publish a book, securing a literary agent is often the first step, and QueryTracker can streamline that daunting process.


Here’s what makes QueryTracker so valuable for writers:


  1. Comprehensive Agent Listings: QueryTracker features a robust database of literary agents from agencies around the world. You can search for agents by genre, manuscript type, location, and more, making it easy to find agents who are most likely to be interested in your work.


  2. Query Tracking System: Querying is often a numbers game. Keeping track of which agents you’ve queried, their response times, and your manuscript’s status can quickly become overwhelming. QueryTracker provides a seamless system to monitor these details in one place. You can log sent queries, track responses, and even see how other users’ submissions to the same agents fared, giving you insight into trends and response times.


  3. Agent Insights and Feedback: QueryTracker’s community-driven feedback allows writers to share experiences with particular agents or agencies. This is especially helpful when gauging which agents might be a good fit for your work. You can also view statistics on each agent’s typical response times and acceptance rates, helping you refine your query strategy.


  4. Premium Features: While the free version of QueryTracker is helpful, a premium membership offers additional perks, such as access to advanced search filters, full-agent data, and the ability to compare agents side by side.


In short, QueryTracker is an indispensable resource for writers who want to stay organized and informed during the querying process.


Writer Beware: Protecting Authors from Scams and Fraud

On the other end of the spectrum, Writer Beware acts as a watchdog for writers, exposing scams, vanity presses, fraudulent agents, and other predatory practices in the publishing industry. Run by Science Fiction and Fantasy Writers of America (SFWA) volunteers, this site is dedicated to protecting authors from exploitation.


Here’s why Writer Beware should be on every writer’s radar:


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  4. Collaborative Efforts with Other Organizations: Writer Beware partners with several reputable organizations, such as the Author's Guild, to create a network of support and advocacy for writers. This collaboration ensures a widespread dissemination of crucial information that keeps authors safe.


Why These Resources Matter

For writers, knowledge is power. The publishing industry can be full of opportunities, but it also has its pitfalls. Websites like QueryTracker and Writer Beware arm authors with the tools they need to make informed decisions about their careers.


  1. QueryTracker helps you navigate the practical side of querying, allowing you to streamline your submissions and get the best possible shot at landing an agent.


  2. Writer Beware ensures that you are protected from the less savory aspects of the industry, from scammers to disreputable publishing companies.


By combining the organizational advantages of QueryTracker with the protective vigilance of Writer Beware, writers can pursue their dreams of publication with confidence. Whether you’re submitting your first query or considering signing a publishing contract, these two platforms can help you avoid the common mistakes and pitfalls that so many new writers face.


In a world where information is key, staying informed and organized with these essential tools can be the difference between success and frustration in your writing journey. Keep them bookmarked—they’re the allies you’ll want by your side as you navigate the thrilling yet challenging road to publication.


Stay Informed and Protected

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Whether you're a new or experienced writer, QueryTracker and Writer Beware offer invaluable support. With QueryTracker's agent tracking and research features, and Writer Beware's protective oversight against scams, you can confidently pursue your publishing dreams. Don't leave your writing journey to chance—use these tools to stay informed and safe.

  1. Finish the First Draft

    Finish the First Draft

    The first draft is often the most difficult step for writers because it represents the first tangible form of an idea. However, it’s essential to finish the draft, no matter how rough or incomplete it may seem. The goal is not perfection but to create a foundation. Once the draft is done, it can be edited, reshaped, and refined. Overthinking and trying to perfect each sentence can hinder progress. Remember, the beauty of writing lies in the process of revision, and every great story or piece starts with a messy first draft.


  2. Show, Don’t Tell

    Show, Don’t Tell

    This advice emphasizes the importance of engaging the reader’s senses and emotions through vivid, descriptive language instead of simply explaining the action or situation. When writers "show," they create scenes that allow readers to experience the story themselves. For example, instead of saying, "He was angry," you can show it by describing his clenched fists, the tightness in his jaw, or the sharpness in his voice. This approach helps immerse the reader in the narrative, making it more relatable and compelling.


  3. Read a Lot

    Read a Lot

    Reading is one of the best ways to improve your writing. By consuming a variety of genres, styles, and voices, you gain insights into narrative techniques, vocabulary, and structure. Reading widely exposes you to different ways of storytelling, helping you find your voice and expand your creativity. It also enhances your understanding of what works and what doesn’t in writing, making it easier to refine your craft. Whether it's fiction, nonfiction, poetry, or essays, each reading experience can offer new lessons that contribute to your development as a writer.


  4. People Watch

    People Watch

    Observing people in their natural environment is a great way to develop authentic characters and dialogue. When you watch how people interact, you notice body language, speech patterns, and subtle nuances that make each person unique. These observations can inspire more realistic characters in your writing. Pay attention to how emotions are expressed non-verbally, how people react to different situations, and how they carry themselves. This practice helps you understand human behavior better, allowing you to write characters that feel genuine and relatable.


  5. Learn Plot Structure

    Learn Plot Structure

    Plot structure is the framework that keeps a story coherent and engaging. Familiarizing yourself with different types of plot structures—such as the three-act structure, the Hero’s Journey, or Freytag's Pyramid—can help you organize your story effectively. A strong plot has a clear beginning, middle, and end, with rising action, conflict, and resolution. Understanding plot structure ensures that your narrative has a natural flow, and it also helps you manage pacing, tension, and character development in a way that keeps readers hooked.


  6. Environment

    Environment

    The environment, or setting, plays a crucial role in storytelling, as it grounds your characters and plot in a tangible world. Whether it's a bustling city, a small town, or a fantastical universe, the environment can influence the mood, tone, and even the actions of your characters. Describing the setting vividly helps create a sense of place and can serve as a tool to reflect themes or emotions. For example, a stormy night can enhance a scene of conflict or tension. Pay attention to the sensory details of the setting—sights, sounds, smells—to immerse your readers fully in the story’s world.


  7. Read Out Loud

    Read Out Loud

    Reading your work aloud is a powerful tool for improving rhythm, flow, and clarity. When you hear your words spoken, you can spot awkward phrasing, repetitive sentences, and inconsistencies in dialogue that might not be as obvious when reading silently. This method also helps ensure that dialogue sounds natural and that the pacing of your narrative works well. If something sounds off when you read it out loud, it’s a signal that it may need revision. It also helps keep your writing smooth and readable for your audience.


  8. Intensify Problems

    Intensify Problems

    Conflict is the engine of any good story, and intensifying the problems or obstacles your characters face keeps readers invested. Whether it’s internal struggles, interpersonal conflicts, or external threats, the more you raise the stakes, the more your readers will care about the outcome. As the tension builds, characters are forced to grow and change, which adds depth to the story. Make sure that the problems your characters face are meaningful and challenge them in ways that resonate with your readers emotionally.


  9. Strong Verbs

    Strong Verbs

    Using strong, active verbs can elevate your writing by making it more dynamic and engaging. Instead of relying on adverbs or passive constructions, opt for verbs that convey specific, vivid actions. For instance, instead of saying “She walked quickly,” you could say “She sprinted” or “She hurried.” Strong verbs paint clearer pictures in the reader’s mind and add energy to your writing, making it more compelling. Avoid overusing generic or weak verbs like "is," "was," or "did," and focus on verbs that show the action clearly and powerfully.


  10. Enjoy Writing

    Enjoy

    Writing should be a rewarding and enjoyable process, even if it comes with challenges. When you allow yourself to enjoy the creative journey, it reflects in your work. This doesn’t mean the process will always be easy, but finding joy in storytelling, exploring new ideas, and expressing yourself can make the experience fulfilling. Celebrate small victories—whether it’s completing a draft, developing a character, or crafting a beautiful sentence. The more you enjoy writing, the more likely you are to stick with it and continue improving.


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